Enhancing your Social Lifestyle

Social life is that part of a person’s life where they partake in enjoyable activities with others. For example joining clubs, hanging out with friends etc.
Social Life involves communication between the subjects and his/her peers. The relationship between people is governed by diverse codes and norms that minimise conflicts and make harmony possible in ones social life. It can be said that a person who usually attends parties and meetings often has a lively social life. The tendency to participate in events makes it interact with numerous individuals, developing different kinds of relationships. There are people who in an informal way say that they do not have Social Life because their day passes between work and home.
Ways of enhancing one’s SocialLife.
1. Joining groups/association: A great way to enhance one’s social life is to join reading groups, associations,dance classes,cooking workshops. In this way you will be in contact with other people and that will facilitate the participation in plans, in forging friendships.
2. Believe in yourself: Don’t assume that because you don’t feel like being social that other people don’t want to be around you. When you make plans with someone, you’re actually helping fill the other person’s Social needs as well. That’s something you can feel good about.
3. Be open with others: Friendships aren’t just about sharing good times. Confide in your friends about your concerns [you’ll find the other person will often feel honoured that you chose to confide in them]. Speaking with a friend or family member about tough issues can be a great way of sorting them out and also bring you closer. Always give your own opinion when discussions come up even if you don’t really know much, but have something to say.
4. Don’t set expectations: Hanging-out or socializing doesn’t have an objective or goal — beyond simply allowing you have an opportunity to relax and enjoy yourself. Focus on the experience of just being with others without worrying about whether or not you are accomplishing anything.